End of Year Survey: 2016 edition
Dec. 31st, 2016 01:11 pmFeeling contemplative. This is my first EOY meme since 2011! (apologies for the formatting that, no matter how much I edit it, springs back to being screwed up).
2016 (and 2011, 2010 and 2009)
2016 (and 2011, 2010 and 2009)
[1.] What did you do in 2016 that you have never done before?
'16: I went to South America. This was actually the continuation of my round-the-world trip which started in October 2015. During the 2015 part of the trip, I visited Nepal and China, Australia, New Zealand, Tahiti and Easter Island; also all places I had never been before. In 2016 I also moved into my first one-bedroom apartment which somehow felt/still feels like a very adult thing to achieve. Never mind that I lived in Manhattan for nine years where one-bedroom apartments are a like pipedream.
'11: Pass. Sorry, it's private.
'10: Get in a car crash. My own fault! Thankfully no one was injured and my rental insurance covered the damage.
'09: Rent my own apartment. Drive a car in the US.
[2.] Did you keep all of last years resolutions?
'16: I don't remember having made NY resolutions? On the other hand, not so much a resolution but my main goal for 2016 was to find a new, secure, meaningful job. I have achieved this somewhat. Oh btw, hi 2011 and 2010, I still don't have that US driving licence :/
'11: I just checked, my resolution was to get my US driving license. No, still haven't got it although I did pass the written test.
'10: Still haven't mastered the violin. I also didn't ask for a raise.
'09: I vowed to teach myself to play the violin but failed miserably. I see it as a long-term project though so who knows, it may happen someday.
[3.] Have you any resolutions for next year?
'16: Get a U.S. driving licence. Buy a car. Apply for a UK passport. Lose weight. Make friends outside of the office.
'11: Not really. I'll go with last year's resolution.
'10: Acquire a US driving licence.
'09: Lose weight! Also, teach myself the violin :)
[4.] What countries did you visit?
'16: Easter Island, Peru, Panama, Guatemala, Canada, The Netherlands (lived there in March, April and June through mid-August), England (all of May), Denmark, Sweden, the US (moved back in mid-August). A good year for travel!
'11: The US, Holland and Germany. My mother and I went to Berlin after Christmas, my first time there.
'11: The US, Holland and Germany. My mother and I went to Berlin after Christmas, my first time there.
'10: Same as always: US, UK and Holland.</b>
'09: I live in the US and I visited Holland and England. I also visited Prague in the Czech Republic.
[5.] What would you like to have in 2017 that you didn't have in 2016?
'16: Job satisfaction. The feeling I am doing well and am appreciated at work. A car.
'11: A permanent visa would be awesome.
'10: A boyfriend. Story of my life.
'09: A serious boyfriend.
[6.] What date in 2016 will remain etched in your memory?
'16: Hmmm, I hope several experiences from my trip will remain etched in my memory. Exploring Easter Island on a moped. Walking through Machu Picchu and Cusco. The beaches of Bocas del Toro. Taking Spanish lessons on the shores of Lake Atitlan. Skiing at Whistler. Exploring Copenhagen and my day trip to Skane in Sweden. But also the day I found out I had a new job. Or going to see Santa with my niece and nephew on a steam train.
'11: September 24, 2011, my first day at Occupy Wall Street
'10: April 13, 2010 - the birth of my niece Julia.
'10: April 13, 2010 - the birth of my niece Julia.
'09: July 15, 2009. Woodstock '09 at Bethel Woods.
[7.] What was your biggest achievement of the year?
'16: I found a new job in July! I moved into my own place in October.
'11: Ha, same as last year!
'10: I found a new, better paying job in a recession.
'09: Becoming legal (receiving my visa) and getting my apartment. Getting approved by the landlord was quite a struggle!
[8.] What was your biggest failure?
'16: Is my failure still unfolding? I feel like I haven't settled into my job the way I should. I often feel my managers are not happy with my work. I wonder if this can be fixed in the new year.
'11: This is hard. Not making enough of an effort to reach out to my brother and sister-and-law after the birth of my second niece. I finally saw her over Christmas break and she is ADORABLE.
'10: Not keeping in touch with friends.
'09: It is my intention to ask for a raise in the next week or so but I have not yet done it. Also, my match.com attempt.
[9.] Did you suffer any illness or injury?
'16: No.
'11: No.
'10: No injuries. No serious illnesses.
'09: Nothing serious. *knock on wood*. I am blessed.
[10.] What was the best thing you bought?
'16: Airplane tickets. My couch. My new Kobo. I feel like adding my apartment but I sure didn't buy that, I'm renting (and paying through the nose).
'16: Airplane tickets. My couch. My new Kobo. I feel like adding my apartment but I sure didn't buy that, I'm renting (and paying through the nose).
'11: A new iPod. Plane tickets. Concert/festival tickets.
'10: Airplane tickets.
'09: Concert tickets. Plane tickets. Theatre tickets. I.e. tickets! Also, I bought a Wii recently, something I had been wanting for a while. I'm not a big spender on things so that was a big deal, mostly I invest in "experiences" (i.e. tickets).
[11.] Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?
'16: Donald Trump and everyone connected to him. My new boss.
'11: Can you believe it, my (now) old boss. He fired me. I like my new boss! Also, the mayor of NYC, Mike Bloomberg.
'10: My old boss and my new boss. Bosses are the worst!
'09: My boss.
[12.] Where did most of your money go?
'16: same as ever, rent and airplane tickets.
'11: Rent. Plane tickets.
'10: Visa transfer costs, for sure. Ouch. Rent too, of course.
'09: Rent and the aforementioned tickets.
[13.] What did you get really really really excited about?
'16: my round-the-world trip! Going to Copenhagen! My new job! Going back to NYC! Going home for Christmas!
'11: Clearwater Festival. The trips I took to New Orleans, Martha's Vineyard, Los Angeles and home. Occupy Wall Street. Seeing my nieces.
'10: Los Angeles, CA.
'09: Days off! Seeing Chris Wood in Bath. My trip to London in the summer. Going to the Woodstock concert. Skiing.
[14.] What songs will always remind you of 2016?
'16: nothing stands out.
'11: I have no idea.
'10: Probably Phil Ochs's entire song book.
'09: I have no idea.
[15.] Compared to this time last year are you:
[A] Fatter or thinner?
'16: Fatter.
'11: About the same.
'10: About the same, maybe slightly thinner.
'09: Fatter? I feel like I have more of a belly.
[B] Happier or sadder?
'16: Sadder. This time last year I was preparing to celebrate NYE on a beach on Easter Island, having just finished a mindblowing cruise of the Tahitan archipelago. I was very happy :) That is hard to top. Work and the world now is bringing me down a little. I think overal 2016 was a good year for me personally but it was a shit year for the world at large.
'11: Happier. I have a better, more secure job. I have met amazing people this year. I've been on some great trips and had a really good summer. Then OWS happened, which is completely invigorating and inspiring, not to mention a whole new social scene.
'10: Happier?
'09: Sadder. This year a few family members and close relations passed away. It makes you feel very mortal when that happens in the space of a few months. Add to that this lingering feeling that I am "missing the boat" somehow (in life, in love, career wise, etc.) and I can deduct that I am sadder/more pessimistic this year than I was last year.
[C] Richer or poorer?
'16: about the same. I spent a lot on my trip and was unemployed until mid-August but now I'm slowly adding funds again.
'11: Monetary, about the same. Spiritually, richer :)
'10: About the same.
'09: Poorer. But I also spend more on rent nowadays.
[16.] What do you wish you'd done more of?
'16: Socialise. Make new friends.
'11: Travel.
'10: Skiing.
'09: Date.
[17.] What do you wish you'd done less of?
'16: Stress out about work!
'11: Mope around in late winter/early spring. I was unemployed.
'10: Work.
'09: Work.
[18.] How will you be spending Christmas?
'16: Having been in Miami in '14 and on a cruise of Tahiti in '15, this was my first Christmas with my family back in the NL in three years. It almost didn't happen because my new boss is manic and wanted me to be at work and almost wanted me to cancel my trip. I ended up having to shorten my stay but I did make it home for Christmas. I was supposed to stay through the 2nd of January but had to come back on Dec 28th for work. Regardless, it was a really nice trip seeing my family, a few friends and also celebrating my dad's 70th birthday.
'11: I went home to see my family. It was wonderful to spend time with my nieces, the youngest I had not met before. My dad had major surgery this fall so it was great to see him doing so well. It was a lovely trip. My mom and I even took a trip to Berlin between Christmas and New Year's.
'10: I spent Christmas at my parents, seeing family, eating and sleeping.
'09: At my parents house, exchanging gifts, eating, watching tv and going online. Same as ever :)
[19.] Which LJ users did you meet for the first time?
'16: no one.
'11: None that I can think of. I did meet a whole bunch of tweeps though.
'10: No one, I don't think.
'09: No one, I think. I met a twitterer though.
[20.] Did you fall in love this year?
'16: No.
'11: No.
'10: I fell in love with the idea of various people.
'09: No.
[21.] How many one night stands?
'16: None.
'11: C'mon now.
'10: None.
'09: None.
[22.] What was your favourite TV show?
'16: This is the year I've discovered Anthony Bourdain. I knew of him for many years but had never seen any of his shows. Earlier this year in Holland, a cooking channel was showing "The Layover". Loved that, watched every episode. Now that I have Netflix in the US, I am savoring every episode of "Parts Unknown". Such amazing television. Also, recently I have been binging on C4's "First Dates" which gives me hope for mankind. I'd like to take part!
'11: I haven't watched a lot of TV over the last few months. I tend to watch stuff that's in syndication, like Seinfeld or How I Met Your Mother. I will make an effort to watch The Apprentice UK.
'10: Modern Family, The Middle, The Apprentice, Seinfeld.
'09: Recently "Armstrong & Miller", earlier this year "Property Virgins" on HGTV. Also, "Victorian Farm" and "The Thick of It".
[23.] Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
'16: Trump and everyone associated with him.
'11: Yeah, same answer as last year. That is, my old boss.
'10: Same answer as last year.
'09: I like my boss a lot less. He has been a ball of stress and has treated me not very nice a few times.
[24.] What was/were the best books you read?
'16: I went to Goodreads to check what I've read this year and I'm sad to report it was mostly a bunch of inconsequential fluff. I think I enjoyed "A Dying Fall" by Elly Griffiths and "The Dude and the Zen Master" by Jeff Bridges and Bernie Glassman most.
'11: Oh, this is embarrassing but I think these crime novels set on Martha's Vineyard by Philip Craig. I read a few of those over the summer.
'10: The Millennium Trilogy.
'09: Did I read any books? I think I may have started a few but haven't finished any. Nothing stands out at least.
[25.] What was your greatest musical discovery?
'16: No one this year but still enjoying Jason Isbell (who I really got into in 2015) very much.
'11: Phil Ochs is so amazing, I am going to pick him again :)
'10: Phil Ochs.
[26.] What did you want and get?
'16: A new job. I also wanted to move back to the US and did. I had to leave NYC and my job and my apt and my life in the summer of 2015 because my visa expired. That was very hard for me. Now I am in a new area though, the Bay Area in California which isn't my favorite place (yet). Outside of coworkers, I don't have a single friend here. They are all in NYC or were in NYC. Visiting NYC in November felt like coming home. <3
'11: A new job! A revolution!
'10: A new job.
'09: My own apartment. A visa.
[27.] What did you want and not get?
'16: Job satisfaction!
'11: A green card through the Diversity Lottery.
'10: This one particular guy I met.
'09: A boyfriend. A birthday gift from my boss.
[28.] What was your favourite film this year?
'16: I haven't seen many new movies this year. Maybe "Manchester By The Sea"?
'11: Honestly? Jaws. I was obsessed with Jaws this summer. Also, I can't believe I picked The Road in 2009. That movie is so grim!
'10: Black Swan.
'09: I enjoyed "Taking Woodstock" a lot. "The Road" was great.
[29.] What did you do on your birthday and how old were you?
'16: 36. I went to work and afterwards had a drink with coworkers at a rooftop bar (it was cold so I didn't stay long). Had Filipino comfort food at a Filipino eatery.
'11: 29. I was on Martha's Vineyard, hanging around.
'10: Still 29 :) Work and then dinner with friends.
'09: I was 29 and I spent it at work during the day and at a Levon Helm & Black Crowes concert in Central Park in the evening. Dinner at a local Thai. Nice day!
[30.] What one thing would have made your year more satisfying?
'16: Job satisfaction.
'11: Love?
'10: See question 27.
'09: More respect from my boss. If match.com had been more successful for me. That's two things, sorry.
[31.] How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016?
'16: see 2011, 2010 and 2009.
'11: Sorry, this never changes.
'10: Same!
'09: H&M, Primark and Old Navy jeans.
[32.] What kept you sane?
'16: My friends and family again.
'11: My friends and family.
'10: Same! My coworker.
'09: Talking to my friends about my boss' ridiculous outbursts kept me sane.
[33.] Which celebrity did you fancy the most?
'16: Oscar Isaac, Matthew Rhys and Mads Mikkelsen.
'11: Phil Ochs. Paul Rudd.
'10: Phil Ochs. <3
'09: Levon Helm circa 1976.
[34.] Which political issue stirred you the most?
'16: The US Presidential Elections and Brexit. The world is going to hell in a handbag.
'11: I've become active in the Occupy Wall Street movement here in NYC. What stirs me the most is the influence of corporations on government, campaign finance reform and the protection of our 1st Amendment rights.
'16: The US Presidential Elections and Brexit. The world is going to hell in a handbag.
'11: I've become active in the Occupy Wall Street movement here in NYC. What stirs me the most is the influence of corporations on government, campaign finance reform and the protection of our 1st Amendment rights.
'10: The Health Care debate.
'09: The environment. I am not very political. I guess what worries me is our mass consumption and waste management. What will we do with all our crap?? I am as much a culprit as anyone else but this whole Ikea/Walmart attitude that we have now: buy lots for cheap; throw out possessions that are out of fashion or an older model for all the shiny, new, cheap stuff; that's what worries me. People used to own less and used it for longer. Not now. I can just picture the landfills filling up. Really scary.
[35.] Who did you miss?
'16: NYC and all my friends in NYC.
'11: My family. Bea.
'10: Beatrice, my old boss' adorable dog.
'09: Family and friends in other parts of the world.
[36.] Who was the best new person you met?
'16: I met some nice people on my travels. I met some nice people at work. Can't pick one, mostly because although they are good people, I am not really very close to any of them.
'11: My new niece Rosa Lee. The gang at Occupy Wall Street.
'11: My new niece Rosa Lee. The gang at Occupy Wall Street.
'10: My niece, Julia. My friend, Nicole. My coworker, Nichole.
'09: That is very hard. I will have to think about this one. (ETA: quick answer: my boss' dog walker Colin who is very, very cute).
[37.] Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned this year?
'16: I am just baffled how shit world politics are at the moment. Who would have thought it could ever come to this? I despair, I truly do. On a personal note: hey look, I got the job I wanted! Don't give up!
'11: If we all band together for a common cause, we might just spark a conversation.
'10: Same shit, different boss.
'09: On a cheery note: I suppose that if you really want something (in my case I had wanted a visa for a long time) and you don't give up, chances are that you'll get there in the end. Not sure if I'm feeling it right now though. On a more dour note: clock is f*cking ticking, get with the program, lady.
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"Ochs, wake up! This is God here - over."
Mar. 5th, 2010 01:35 amLife right now is in such a state of turmoil that I am aiming to distract myself. To that end, I present to you:
10 Reasons why I love Phil Ochs (And You Should Too).

Phil Ochs was an American protest/folk singer who was active in the 60's and early-70's. He was a contemporary and collaborator of Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, Joni Mitchell, etc. etc. yet until very recently I had never heard of him. Shock horror. Here are some reasons why that is so, so wrong.
1. He was a talented, prolific topical song writer. He used to contribute material to a singer-songwriter magazine called "Broadside". He would take the subway from his apartment in Greenwich Village to the offices of the magazine on the Upper West Side in New York and write 7 or 8 songs on the 30 minute ride up. He would have a new song in every issue of the magazine in those days.
2. He was sharp and very funny, peppering his concerts with witty introductions to songs or simply taking the piss out of his own kind in tunes like Love Me, I'm a Liberal. He had a clause in his folk club contracts that required a picket line outside of his concerts. Always in friendly competition, Bob Dylan once suggested that he should abandon folk music and become a stand-up comedian.
3. Of all the topical protest singers of his generation, nobody was quite as political as Phil. He was as much a singer as he was an activist. He would often give up paid gigs to play at political rallies and benefits. He sang at the 1968 demonstrations in Chicago against the Democratic National Convention (apparently an event many people promised they would show up at but most chickened out). He helped found a youth counter cultural organization called the Yippies. He performed at the concert that helped launch Greenpeace. He organized a big benefit in the 70's for Chile. That's just the start of it. Let's just say that he was a passionate individual.
4. He loved movies. He used to see everything that came out. He eventually started writing movie reviews for the Los Angeles Free Press, which I think is so at odds with his whole super political/anti-war/save the world attitude. Cross-ref point 2., he used to introduce his song "Joe Hill" (about a union activist who was framed for murder) as follows: "The song by the way has been made into a movie, starring Richard Burton as Joe Hill, and Elizabeth Taylor plays the Industrial Workers of the World." Trust me, it's funny when he says it!
5. After moving to Los Angeles, he described the city as "a beautiful, sensual morgue".
6. His love of flat caps:

7. This anecdote: ( Not for the faint of heart. Or those about to eat )
8. He could ( scrub up real nice if he wanted to. )
9. He was a realist. In the 70's he would introduce himself at concerts as "an old-timer, way back from the 60's. A time when people used to get upset with things going on with the government. They used to, believe it or not, actually demonstrate in the streets! Of course, they don't do that anymore - to demonstrate in the streets is now passé and unfashionable ... and not likely to get you any girls."
10. But first of all and most of all because of this: Listen to Phil Ochs' albums on Myspace (US/Canada only, I believe.)
BONUS! 11. The way he strums his guitar while he introduces songs on live recordings gets on my nerves. I love that about him too.
Phil Ochs suffered from manic depression that got gradually worse. In 1976, at the age of 35, he took his own life. 34 years later, I am both captivated and heart broken.
10 Reasons why I love Phil Ochs (And You Should Too).

Phil Ochs was an American protest/folk singer who was active in the 60's and early-70's. He was a contemporary and collaborator of Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, Joni Mitchell, etc. etc. yet until very recently I had never heard of him. Shock horror. Here are some reasons why that is so, so wrong.
1. He was a talented, prolific topical song writer. He used to contribute material to a singer-songwriter magazine called "Broadside". He would take the subway from his apartment in Greenwich Village to the offices of the magazine on the Upper West Side in New York and write 7 or 8 songs on the 30 minute ride up. He would have a new song in every issue of the magazine in those days.
2. He was sharp and very funny, peppering his concerts with witty introductions to songs or simply taking the piss out of his own kind in tunes like Love Me, I'm a Liberal. He had a clause in his folk club contracts that required a picket line outside of his concerts. Always in friendly competition, Bob Dylan once suggested that he should abandon folk music and become a stand-up comedian.
3. Of all the topical protest singers of his generation, nobody was quite as political as Phil. He was as much a singer as he was an activist. He would often give up paid gigs to play at political rallies and benefits. He sang at the 1968 demonstrations in Chicago against the Democratic National Convention (apparently an event many people promised they would show up at but most chickened out). He helped found a youth counter cultural organization called the Yippies. He performed at the concert that helped launch Greenpeace. He organized a big benefit in the 70's for Chile. That's just the start of it. Let's just say that he was a passionate individual.
4. He loved movies. He used to see everything that came out. He eventually started writing movie reviews for the Los Angeles Free Press, which I think is so at odds with his whole super political/anti-war/save the world attitude. Cross-ref point 2., he used to introduce his song "Joe Hill" (about a union activist who was framed for murder) as follows: "The song by the way has been made into a movie, starring Richard Burton as Joe Hill, and Elizabeth Taylor plays the Industrial Workers of the World." Trust me, it's funny when he says it!
5. After moving to Los Angeles, he described the city as "a beautiful, sensual morgue".
6. His love of flat caps:

7. This anecdote: ( Not for the faint of heart. Or those about to eat )
8. He could ( scrub up real nice if he wanted to. )
9. He was a realist. In the 70's he would introduce himself at concerts as "an old-timer, way back from the 60's. A time when people used to get upset with things going on with the government. They used to, believe it or not, actually demonstrate in the streets! Of course, they don't do that anymore - to demonstrate in the streets is now passé and unfashionable ... and not likely to get you any girls."
10. But first of all and most of all because of this: Listen to Phil Ochs' albums on Myspace (US/Canada only, I believe.)
BONUS! 11. The way he strums his guitar while he introduces songs on live recordings gets on my nerves. I love that about him too.
Phil Ochs suffered from manic depression that got gradually worse. In 1976, at the age of 35, he took his own life. 34 years later, I am both captivated and heart broken.
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If you see this, post a poem in your own LJ.
The Lake Isle of Innisfree
I WILL arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a small cabin build there, of clay and wattles made;
Nine bean rows will I have there, a hive for the honey bee,
And live alone in the bee-loud glade.
And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings;
There midnight's all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet's wings.
I will arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements gray,
I hear it in the deep heart's core.
-- William Butler Yeats
AUDIO HERE
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If you see this, post a poem in your own LJ.
The Lake Isle of Innisfree
I WILL arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a small cabin build there, of clay and wattles made;
Nine bean rows will I have there, a hive for the honey bee,
And live alone in the bee-loud glade.
And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings;
There midnight's all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet's wings.
I will arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements gray,
I hear it in the deep heart's core.
-- William Butler Yeats
AUDIO HERE
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Sep. 23rd, 2005 09:39 amWhen you see this in a friend's journal, quote Shakespeare.
First witch: When shall we three meet again,
In thunder, lightning, or in rain?
Second Witch: When the hurly-burly's done,
When the battle's lost and won.
Third witch: That will be ere the set of sun.
First witch: Where the place?
Second witch: Upon the heath.
Third witch: There to meet with Macbeth.
First witch: I come, Greymalkin!
Second witch: Paddock calls.
Third witch: Anon!
All: Fair is foul, and foul is fair:
Hover through the fog and filthy air.
(Macbeth, Act 1, Scene 1)
"Shakespeare - The nearest thing in incarnation to the eye of God"
- Laurence Olivier (1907-1989)
First witch: When shall we three meet again,
In thunder, lightning, or in rain?
Second Witch: When the hurly-burly's done,
When the battle's lost and won.
Third witch: That will be ere the set of sun.
First witch: Where the place?
Second witch: Upon the heath.
Third witch: There to meet with Macbeth.
First witch: I come, Greymalkin!
Second witch: Paddock calls.
Third witch: Anon!
All: Fair is foul, and foul is fair:
Hover through the fog and filthy air.
(Macbeth, Act 1, Scene 1)
"Shakespeare - The nearest thing in incarnation to the eye of God"
- Laurence Olivier (1907-1989)